1/10, Marriage is about as big as milestones come. This is your partner! For life! And as such, there are some fundamental life moves you should try to accomplishbeforeyou walk down the aisle, just to besure that you’re entering into your marriage as responsible and self-aware as you can be. We checked in with three relationship experts—Diana Kirschner, Ph.D., author ofFind Your Soulmate Online in 6 Simple Steps; Rachel Sussman, licensed clinical socialworker, a relationship counselor in New York City; and Marni Battista, relationship expert and founder ofdatingwithdignity.com—to find out which ones are most important.2/10,Go on a Blind DateIt’s just one of those things every woman should do at least once.3/10,Figure Out What Turns You OnNeed some help IDing your hot spots? Play around with a vibrator, or watch porn, or both—you’ll quickly realize what does it for you simply by trial and error. Also, experiment with different types of sexual partners until you’re able to tell what you like best. And be sure to tell your guy what it is that you want. Just be straightforward and say it: “I like it when you do ___ like ____.” He’llappreciate the fact that you’re direct; guys aren’t mind readers.4/10,Create a Life That You Love *Without* a PartnerThat way, when he shows up, you’re already grounded. You’re not dependent on him, and you'll be more likely to find someone who loves youandyour passions.5/10,Create a List of Five Values It's Important Your Partner HasSay, for example, that finding a partner who follows a sustainable lifestyle is absolutely crucial for you. Put that on the list as a reminder not to compromise on your core values. Disclaimer: If you feel that your priorities are shifting and that what you thought was a dealbreaker value isn't really a dealbreaker value anymore, then by all means, change your list. It's not set in stone. But if the guy you're heading down the aisle with right now doesn't meet oneof the criteria on your list—and you still feel it's important—then it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship before you make a big mistake.
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